Wednesday, March 10, 2010 @10:04 PM
life's been okay, with its little blessings in between. but there is this one thing i've really gotta rant about and its been bugging me ever since tuesday.
i don't understand, is being self-centred a thing that just comes with you? is it something you've always been taught, to look out for your feelings and to achieve your goals at the cost of everyone else's? to always assume that everyone's out to get you and that you've gotta defend yourself at the cost of everyone else?
is it really that difficult to take a step back and try to look at the bigger picture? the consequences of your action on others instead of only yourself and her? to look at the effects of your decision on the rest of your family?
i just really want you to know that you should just think before you speak, think before you do anything, try and look at the big picture, realize the domino effects of your actions on our own actions before you do anything, and at least weigh the pros and cons of your decision before you make it.
i just hope the one pro i can come up with for your decision this time can help you realize that life's not as cheery and easy as you think it is. the world is not out to get you but the world does have difficulties in their own way. i hate to say this but just stop being a pessimist and start thinking good things about other people and events that happen. just try to stop being narrowminded. i can tell when you even just try.
